50 Encouraging Sympathy Messages for Loss of Wife

The loss of a wife is one of the most difficult trials anyone can go through. And the idea of  “moving on” after such a loss? No one should ask that of a husband who truly loved his wife.

There are no words that can describe what someone must go through as they grieve the loss of their beloved.

You can imagine (or, we pray not, remember) losing your own spouse. It would be like losing a significant part of yourself. Such a loss creates an empty space that cannot be filled. In such circumstances, if someone says, “we are sorry for your loss,” you often do not know what to make of those words.

If you wouldn’t want to hear empty words that do little to ease your sorrow, you should understand that others may also feel the same. 

Nevertheless, if you know someone who has recently been through the loss of a wife, it is important to say something. Saying nothing can cause the grieving person to feel that their hurt does not matter, and that their wife left an imprint on them alone and no one else.

You know that’s not true. Your friend’s wife had an incredible life, and an incredible impact on those around her. So, as you consider writing a condolence note, you need to know how to apply the art of kind, sympathetic words that show how much you care. 

Here is what you need to know.

What Do I Say to Someone Who Lost Their Wife? 

There’s no one right answer to this question. The “right thing to say” will certainly vary from person to person, from loss to loss.

So the main things are these:

1. Consider the pain that your friend is feeling right now.
2. Think carefully about what is on your own heart, and focus on saying that.
3. Avoid saying thoughtless things that would only deepen their wounds. 

To save you from using the wrong words in the event of such sensitive incidents, and to inspire your creative expressions of sympathy, we share with you the following messages.

50 Sympathy Messages for Loss of Wife

We’ll start with 10 short sympathy messages that you can use to express your sympathy in the warmest ways possible. Then we’ll consider an array of meaningful ways to show your love and care.

10 Short Sympathy Messages

1. Our heartfelt sympathies are with you. We miss her too.

2. What you are going through is hard to imagine. We join you in mourning this loss together.

3. Your wife created so many memories worth treasuring. May you always feel surrounded by her love as you continue to feel the incredible impact of her life.

4. In this time of grief, may the warmth of our love embrace you for a lifetime.

5. You have our deepest sympathies as you mourn your dear wife.

6. You will be continually in our thoughts and prayers during the days ahead, so don’t hesitate to reach out.

7. Breathe. Rest. Cry. Lean on me, you know you’ve got my shoulder to cry on.

8. We send you our prayers, our love, and our deepest sympathies on the loss of your dear wife.

9. Life is all the more beautiful for knowing your beloved wife. She was a true treasure, and you have our deepest condolences.

10. As you grieve, know that we are thinking of you. Our prayer is that you find peace and comfort as you celebrate your wife’s wonderful memory.

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Words Of Comfort Upon the Loss of a Wife

11. Though she is gone, she still watches over you. Her love still resides.

12. In this trying and difficult time, our family daily keeps your family in our prayers and thoughts.

13. Our love, prayers, and sympathy are with you. May you feel comfort in carrying on the life you built together even as you mourn your wife’s passing.

14. In these moments of grief, we want you to know that you are not alone. We weep too, even as we share in the bittersweet memories of your wife’s great capacity to love.

15. As you go through these sorrowful days, remember that there’s no one single right way to mourn. No matter what you are feeling, you have my sympathies and love.

16. If you find your grief overwhelming, know that I am just a call away – even if the sun is not up yet.

17. In this time of sorrow, we tenderly keep you and your family in our thoughts.

18. Our love and sympathies are with you as you grieve. Your wife was a special person who truly deserves to be remembered well.

19. Your wife was a treasure, and her passing fills us with such great grief. Please accept our sincere condolences.

20. Knowing her life of faith gives us true hope that her home-going was a joy. While we are yet here on this earth, we grieve along with you as you mourn her passing.

21. In your mourning, we hope you find comfort and peace as friends and loved ones surround you with love. You have our deepest sympathies.

22. Hey friend, you know I’m always up late. You are dear to me more than anything so if the night’s hour gets excruciating, just ring me up and I’ll gladly lend an ear.

23. In this time of pain and grief, where your entire world seems to have collapsed, we hope that you find comfort in the memories you shared.

24. Everyone who knew your beloved wife shares in the great sorrow at her loss. Please accept our condolences and know that she lived an amazing and impactful life.

Encouraging Sympathy Messages

25. In this time of sorrow, may the outpouring of love, support, and cherished memories provide some measure of comfort for you. Your wife meant a lot to a lot of people. Hers was a truly beautiful soul.

26. She is no longer with us, so we grieve with you. May you find a measure of solace in the amazing memories and legacy of love that she left behind.

27. Your wife was an incredible person. We weep with you as you weep, knowing that the Great Comforter will one day wipe away every tear.

28. As the sun sets, we think of you, praying that you find comfort as you remember and mourn. You have our most sincere sympathies.

29. What we love becomes a part of ourselves. We are all better people because of the impact your wife had on us. So please accept our condolences in this time of sorrow, and know that her life was not lived in vain.

Meaningful Sympathy Messages

30. Our heart is breaking for you, dear friend. With this pain of your grief, we hope that the sun warms you again with joy and love as you remember your beloved wife.

31. The pain is undoubtedly unimaginably intense, but you are stronger than you know, and you have us by your side. We want to express our deepest and most loving sympathies.

32. We mourn with you as you grieve the loss of your soulmate. We are with you, heart and soul, in this difficult time.

33. It’s alright to feel what you are feeling right now. You have all our love and support. Please accept our condolences on the loss of your beautiful wife.

34. We mourn the loss of your wife so very much. She was an incredible person, and it was a privilege to know her. You have our deepest condolences, and know that you are in our prayers.

35. May your love for your beautiful wife motivate you to grieve deeply and also continue to live out all the things she stood for.

36. Our deepest sympathies! We are so sorry that you had to go through this all yourself. We are here for you as you mourn the loss of your partner.

37. Your loss is so huge that no words could soothe the pain you are going through right now. We hope you find some measure of solace in our sympathies as you remember what a wonderful life your wife led. It was a privilege to know her.

38. These days it must be tough for you but allow me to be a friend and a listener. Let’s share her memories over a cup of coffee.

39. The pain you feel is real; we feel some small measure of that as we mourn your wife alongside you. Please know that you are not alone. We keep you in our prayers and her memory in our hearts.

40. It makes me so sad that you’ve lost the one who was truly your soulmate. I want to be by your side so we can mourn and remember her together.

Loss Of Wife Quotes 

41. “Can I see a falling tear, And not feel my sorrow’s share?” – William Blake

42. “Give sorrow words; that grief that does not speak knits up to the o-er wrought heart and bids it break.” – Shakespeare 

43. “I cannot weep; for all my body’s moisture Scarce serves to quench my furnace-burning heart: To weep is to make less the depth of grief.” – Shakespeare 

44. “Can I see another’s woe, and not be in sorrow too? Can I see another’s grief, and not seek for kind relief?” – William Blake

45. “What though the radiance that was once so bright, be now forever taken from my sight. Though nothing can bring back the hour of splendor in the grass, of glory in the flower; We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains behind.” – William Wordsworth

46. “Joy and woe are woven fine, A clothing for the soul divine. Under every grief and pine Runs a joy with silken twine.” – William Blake

47. “Death is the golden key that opens the palace of eternity.” – John Milton

48. “I will not say: do not weep; for not all tears are an evil.” – J.R.R. Tolkein

49. “Only people who are capable of loving strongly can also suffer great sorrow, but this same necessity of loving serves to counteract their grief and heals them.” – Leo Tolstoy

50. “Tell them, that, to ease them of their griefs, Their fear of hostile strokes, their aches, losses, Their pangs of love, with other incident throes that nature’s fragile vessel doth sustain In life’s uncertain voyage.” – Shakespeare

How & Where to Express Sympathy

In the era of digitization and technology, people interact more through electronic ways than other means. Sending a sympathy note through text, email, or social media is perfectly acceptable.

Nevertheless, a card, letter, or sympathy gift allow you to show that extra touch of care. The words and messages below may best express your condolences when written by hand on physical paper.

So, consider sending a gift, such as flowers or a Memorial Bird Feeder, along with a gift note. Drop off a hot coffee along with a sympathy card, or send a letter with some printed photos the husband may not have seen before.

A printed gift note is perfectly acceptable, but a handwritten note will always convey your personal sympathies in a way that nothing else can. So consider a handwritten sympathy card.

Ways To Show Love and Support

Words are capable of doing magic to the aggrieved person if chosen with great care and tenderness. We hope you use these sympathy messages to inspire you to write something meaningful to your grieving friend!

However, there is a time when words cease to do their spell. Actions also play an important role to help the person in grief as you tangibly express your love and support.

Remember that in such times of raw grief, the husband who has just lost a wife may feel irritated or edgy, sad or angry, or may simply want to be alone. We invite you to be thoughtful in your expression of support, so that they truly feel supported and not annoyed or disturbed with your act of kindness. 

If you are unsure what you can do to help, here are some ideas of ways to help the grieving person.

• Leave them with some time to heal – giving them space may be fruitful.
• Visit them occasionally. Show that you remember them by checking up on them.
• Reassure them that you are just a call or message away.
• Be kind and courteous.
• Surprise them with the food they like the most. Special treats like pastries or coffees from their favorite shops.
• Drop off a hot meal, or a meal for the freezer that they can reheat as needed.
• Offer to watch the kids, if there are any young children in the home.

The pain of losing a loved one is real, raw, and agonizing. As you seek to comfort and support the grieving husband over the loss of his wife, remember that grief is a process and takes time.

While your sympathy message won’t provide immediate closure, a few thoughtfully expressed words of condolence can do subtle wonders as the grieving person realizes he is surrounded by love.

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