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Funeral Planning Checklist (Printable + What You Need to Know)

Last Updated on October 22, 2021

We’ve created an informative, helpful funeral planning checklist, and it’s printable.

Actually, we created two. One for simplicity and ease of use, and another to provide a comprehensive go-to trove of information, should you ever need it.

Our goal is to help you see your options as you arrange the funeral and other services.

First, we have the simple checklist. (Click or tap here to jump there.)

This first checklist has the most popular choices and gives you a good overview of what to expect as you’re meeting with the funeral director, minister, and others. Click each link for articles that go into more depth on the given topic.

Second, we’ve written a much more detailed checklist. (Further down the page; click or tap here to jump to it.)

In the longer list there is quite a bit more information to go through. But it’s worth it! You’ll find guidance on just about every type of arrangement, choice, and option as you craft a beautiful memorial service to honor your loved one.

Ready? Let’s jump into the short (but helpful!) checklist.

Simple Funeral Planning Checklist

Here is a printable version of our Simple Funeral Planning Checklist. Read on to find additional resources for each topic.

1. Get Help

2. Choose Disposition Method

3. Select Service Type(s)

4. Personalize the Service

5. Choose Final Resting Place

The biggest decision most people will make about disposition is whether to choose burial or cremation. Here are some tips on deciding which is right for you.

6. Arrange Payment

  • Cash. Keep in mind some funeral homes do not accept cash. However, the funeral home will take a money order or cashier’s check.
  • Credit Card. You can pay with one card or split it up between different credit cards.
  • Check. Most funeral homes will accept a check, but they may not let you schedule the funeral until the check clears.
  • Life Insurance. The beneficiary would sign an assignment form at the funeral home. This form will allow payment of the settlement to go directly to the funeral home. The insurance company will pay the beneficiary the leftover money directly to them.

Detailed Funeral Planning Checklist

Now that you know the basic features and choices you’ll need to make when planning a funeral, let’s get into more detail. Click here for the printable version.

Who Will Be Involved?

  • The Funeral Home
    • Choose the best funeral home for your needs. It doesn’t have to be the same funeral home as the cemetery or crematorium, and you can shop around and compare prices.
    • Ask a friend to come along with you for support.
    • Make sure to take a form of payment with you: cash, credit card, life insurance, or a personal check.
  • The Cemetery Sexton
    • You will purchase a gravesite and pay the open and closing charges to the sexton. But, first, he will take you out to the cemetery and show you around so you can choose the grave you want for your loved one.
    • If you already own a gravesite, take your deed with you. The only fee you will pay for is the open and closing fees.
  • The Officiant
    • This can be your church pastor, the funeral director, a friend, or a family member. Don’t forget the honorarium.
    • If you are using the church building/sanctuary for the service, the funeral director will help coordinate that for you.
  • The Venue
    • The funeral home is the ideal venue for viewing/visitation, funeral, committal, and (sometimes) reception.
    • You may also consider having a viewing/visitation at home, or even a home burial.
    • Your church may be a good option for the funeral or memorial service and reception.
    • Other venues might include a community center, event center, large home of a family member or friend, and so on.
  • Family and Friends to Help Delegate Tasks
    • Accept help from people that offer it. Or, if no one offers to help, ask someone to give you a hand. These tasks include:
  • Caterer or Restaurant
    • If you want to host a reception following the funeral, you can hire a caterer or reserve enough tables at a local restaurant.
  • Florist
    • You will want to order the casket spray and perhaps two standing sprays for each end of the casket.
  • Musician(s)
    • If you are going to have an organist or soloist, you will need to arrange this. Don’t forget the honorarium.
  • Honor Guard
    • If your loved one is a veteran, the funeral director will arrange for the honor guard to be part of the service.

What Will Happen to the Body?

  • The deceased is picked up from the place of death.
  • The corpse will be placed in a climate-controlled facility. This facility is either the crematorium or funeral home.
  • The body will be embalmed or prepared for cremation.
  • Decide if you will have a viewing and/or funeral with the body and casket present.
  • Plan for a funeral procession, if needed.
  • They will be buried or cremated.
  • Cremated remains can be scattered, buried, kept at home, placed in your garden, or even placed in a reef. Here are more details about these options.

What Type(s) of Services Will Be Scheduled?

You can choose from several different types of services, including:

You’ll also want to consider all the factors that will affect each event, such as:

  • Will the body be present?
  • Open or closed casket?
  • Burial or cremation?
  • Service before or after cremation?
  • At the funeral home or at church? Or elsewhere?
  • Burial (i.e., committal) service to follow?
  • Family only, or public?
  • Reception to follow? Catered or potluck, same or different location?

Lastly, consider what decorations, accents, and accessories will be needed:

How Will the Memorial Honor Your Loved One?

The memorial or funeral service should be centered around your loved one. Here are some suggestions to make it extra personal.

  • Make a DVD or slideshow tribute
  • Eulogy – This is the time to say all of the “good” things you can think of
  • Play their favorite music
  • Sing their favorite hymns
  • Have pictures of your loved one positioned around the room; make picture boards
  • Place items from their favorite hobby in the chapel. An example would be fishing paraphernalia, knitting supplies, or whatever their interest may have been

There are many ways to memorialize your loved one during the service and after the service. Talk to your funeral director about programs or ideas the funeral home may offer.

What Will Be the Final Resting Place?

With the choice of burial, green burial, and cremation, there are many options for a final resting place.

How Will You Pay for It All?

Paying for a funeral or memorial service can be overwhelming and can put a financial strain on a family. The ideal situation would be that your loved one had pre-paid funeral plan. But, if they don’t, here are some options.

  • Create a “GoFundMe” account.
  • Ask your family to pitch in.
  • The deceased’s life insurance policy – if they had one.
  • Some people have burial insurance, which will cover the costs of a funeral.
  • Credit card – You can use more than one credit card.
  • Savings
  • Bank loan
  • Apply to the county or state indigent fund. The funeral home will help you with the paperwork.

Planning a funeral is draining, both emotionally and financially. The best option is to plan ahead if at all possible. It’s not always an easy subject to broach, but it is essential to have finances set aside. Death is a certainty; plan accordingly.

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